SHE PRAYS FOR HIM

Hello everyone, I hope that you’re all doing good!

I’m deeply grateful to God to share with you a new orchestral piece called « She Prays For Him » The music has two main contemplations:

The first one tells the story of a woman in search for her husband. (whether she knows him or not yet). She prays about it.

The second one describes the process of becoming a woman of God according to Jesus.

If you’re a woman and if you are searching for something serious — a life-long relationship — structured, solid and grounded , I hope this text will have an echo in your heart!

Important : Before to go further in the description, I will do my best by God’s Grace to talk about what constitute a man of God in the next coming weeks. It works both sense. The effort done by the woman should be done the same by the man.

Within our modern days and ever changing culture, it can be really confusing for a woman to find her identity. You might have noticed all the different philosophies out there saying all kind of different things.

What I’m about to share with you is definitely not popular, it can even be labeled as counter cultural, but you can be certain of one thing — it does not change with time — It’s solid and eternal, and you won’t be overwhelmed by any confusions of any sort.

According to God, the first step of becoming a woman of God is to be directly rooted in His Being. What does it mean? To know God and to be known by Him — through the person of Jesus-Christ. To « fuse » with Him.

Jesus-Christ is the bridge between our world and Heaven, and between humans and God. It is Jesus-Christ that truly establish our relationship and connection with God Almighty.

To make it very short and simple, we are not perfect, we make plenty of mistakes consciously or unconsciously (it’s called sin in The Bible.) and we need to be healed and saved from this. Our mistakes break our relation with God, because God is Holy. That’s the reason why Jesus came down on earth. He lived the perfect life we should have lived and died On The Cross in our place. He paid the legal price of all of our mistakes, sins, and evil so that we won’t be punished after we leave this planet to enter Eternity.

According to Jesus, if you personally believe in your heart that He loves you, that He lived and died and resurrected to save you from your sins — and say it with your mouth — you are now a saved person. Your relationship with God starts the moment you believed. If you want more informations about how to be saved I have written a music and a text here : Are You Saved?

Once you’re saved, God should become your number 1. No one, nor father mother, sister, brother, husband or wife, must have that place. He must be your everything. You need to cultivate your relationship with God everyday by talking to Him all the time, and reading His Word (The Bible).

While doing this, God will change you for your own best and joy. It’s called the sanctification process. He cleans you, re-shape your inside and out — according to His Heart. He purifies and prepare you for your own future, to make it solid and grounded.

What constitute the inside of a woman of God?

The inside is the most important. Your spirit and soul, the state of your heart, your personality, your character and emotions will become pivotal. Let’s see the different categories we will overview : 

1-) The Spiritual
2-) Holiness
3-) Your Character
4-) The Physical
5-) Sexuality
6-) Work

Spiritual : Your spirit must be united with the Spirit of God. His Life must overflow your being. It’s called « Receiving the Holy Spirit » The Spirit of Jesus lives in you and guide you all the way.

Your character (your personality and emotions) : What you should develop is tenderness, sweetness, patience, humility, sincerity, a clean talk, being a help for your future husband in all possible ways, being full of mercy and compassion and to submit to him, to trust him to lead you in Jesus. In the process, introspect yourself the best you can, and spot all the bad traits to delete them : Anger, hate, cussing, controlling, manipulating, ego, lying, gossiping, lazyiness unforgiveness, bitterness, pride etc. By being with Jesus, it will be much more easier to spot them and destroy them all.

Holiness : The Love of Jesus in you will create this desire to get Holy. If you smoke, or drink or do drugs, I encourage you to drop them. Avoid counterfeit sexuality such as pornography or erotic content. (sexuality is so beautiful to dwell in those fake spheres — God has real sexuality in store for you, far more intense, rich and beautiful than pornography). Avoid all kind of astrology or esoterism stuff. Avoid nightclubs. Avoid any kind of sexual relationship except the one you will have with your husband within Marriage. Avoid bad friendship, and bad company that will slow your process of becoming a woman of God. Work on your ecosystem, replace bad influence by good ones. Bad music by Good music, bad movies by quality ones, bad books by pure ones. You should have such an ecosystem that is recognizable but putting you up in your progress and never down. When you feel discouraged, don’t go back to your old self. Relax, pray and keep pushing on what’s good and qualitative.

The physical : Optimize your season of waiting by working on your own appearance. You should become the absolute best version of yourself to your future husband (and once again, Him as well for you) Eat healthy, exercice, and take grand care of yourself. Jesus says that your body is the temple of God. Back then, The Temple of God was full of beauty while being modest, it was the epitome of Elegance, aim for Elegance as well! You can be extremely beautiful without wearing heavy makeup, or wearing expensive jewelry or clothes. Look out on Pinterest styles that resonates with you to get inspired. Avoid all sort of vulgarity, keep your body for God and your husband, you’re sacred and you’re not for everyone, your precious.

Work: Your husband won’t look for you to have degrees or to have a career to be attracted to you. You don’t need to have any money to please him. You can be broke or rich, you can live in a teepee or a castle, it won’t change anything if you’re a woman of God. The definition of work for a woman in the Bible is very different that of the secular one. Taking care of your parents, brother or sister is work. Cleaning, cooking, going to the grocery is work. Raising children is work. Taking care of your husband is work. Also your husband must take care of yourself. Nothing wrong to have a career and your own money by the way, but I don’t want you to feel pressured by this. It’s not the most important.

Sexuality : I don’t know for you, but for me — Before to know God — I though that Biblical sexuality was boring! I knew nothing about it. I was wrong, there is a whole book in the Bible that is about Love and sexuality — and it’s actually an erotic book! (Called « The Song of Songs ») It describes the love between the husband and wife and shows how much all the body, the touch, is important, it’s full of imagery. It serves to encourage you to develop a flourished and constant sexuality. Remember, sexuality is good and sacred, it was created by God. God says to have a continuous and fulfilled sexual life within marriage. Anytime you need to have intimacy with your husband, he is due to give it to you and vice-versa. You must lack nothing and always be satisfied in that sphere as well.

It’s a lot to consider, especially if it’s brand new for you, but at least you know the big lines of becoming a woman of God. Whoever you are, whatever your past, God loves you and wants to write your future, trust Him!

How to find a Christian husband?

I recommend you to get around serious and genuine Biblical Christians locally or online and be familiar with them. The one condition you should look for is if they are rooted in The Bible. There are so many denominations out there, that sadly adds to Scriptures. Many of them add traditions, teaching that aren’t found in the Bible and that are even contradictory to it. Be strict and don’t let anything go above what is given by Jesus in the Bible, it will become your absolute foundation in life. If it’s not the case, confusions will arise.

If you’re on Instagram or YouTube, follow great Christian pages and connect. Pray before each of your next move, ask God directions and protection. Start friendship with them. Don’t be afraid to send messages. Never cease to pray, ask God to create connection with the right people and your future husband and to protect you from bad ones.

What to look in him? Observe his actions. Do they reflect Jesus and The Bible? Beware of counterfeit, people professing God with their lips but not with their heart and actions. If it’s not the right person, God will show you the red flags very soon. If he wants to sleep with you before marriage, leave. If he does not live a sanctified life like you are, leave. If he doesn’t put the same amount of efforts that you do, and play games with you, leave! Be patient. Remember that all the work you’re putting in yourself to please God, your future husband must do it as well. Don’t rush anything. Once you think you have found him, pray about the person constantly. And don’t be afraid to tell him that you like him. It’s also Biblical that the woman makes the first move!

God bless you!